“You probably wouldn’t worry about what other people think of you if you could know how seldom they do.” – Olin Miller (1936).
Samuel Johnson in 1751 says it this way, “But the truth is, that no man is much regarded by the rest of the world, except where the interest of others is involved in his fortune. The common employments or pleasures of life, love or opposition, loss or gain, keep almost every mind in perpetual agitation. If any man would consider how little he dwells upon the condition of others, he would learn how little the attention of others is attracted by himself.”
This piano kid was very self-conscious and didn’t like to play piano when other people were around, even if the other people were complimenting her playing.
Lessons learned from the Self-conscious piano kid:
1. Even parents with good intentions can cause unpleasant results.
2. READ your children, not just what you want to see.
3. Practice needs privacy.