PPP 368: Three Questions I Ask (almost) Every Student At (almost) Every Lesson

On this episode, I share three open‑ended questions I ask my piano students during lessons—questions designed to give them a voice, encourage reflection, and increase their engagement with the music.

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Highlights from today's show

Question 1: “What do you think?”

    • The #1 question I ask after a student plays a piece

    • Teaching students to be active listeners and self-evaluators

    • Guiding them to notice dynamics, articulation, finger choices, and more

    • Why “I don’t know” is just the starting point of a deeper conversation

Question 2: “What can we do to help you practice this at home?

    • There is a big difference between asking and telling

    • Sticky notes, rainbow phrase marks, and other practice aids

    • Letting students make decisions about visual aids

Question 3: “What should we do with this piece this week?”

    • Options include: keep working, polish for performance, or move on

    • Teaching students that not every piece needs to be perfected

    • The power of setting a finish line

Five-Star Song System

    • Inspired by Cathy Lissinger’s suggestion at TMTA

    • Using colored stars to represent levels of mastery:

        • 🟢 Green – Correct Notes

        • 🔵 Blue – Rhythm & Steady Beat

        • 🔴 Red – Articulation or Fingering

        • ⚪ Silver – Dynamics

        • 🟡 Gold – Performance Ready or Memorized

        • 🟣 Purple – Earned when all five stars are achieved

    • Friendly studio competition & purple star beads

    • Helps break big goals into bite-sized, motivating steps

Encouraging Reflection at Home

    • Suggestions for parents:

      • Ask open-ended questions about pieces

      • Avoid leading with “Do you like it?” or “Did you practice?”

      • Help your child articulate why they enjoy (or dislike) a piece

Resources mentioned in today's show

📘 Practice Planner on Amazon
Beautiful, functional planner designed especially for piano students — this year’s special 1725 Bach Notebook 300th anniversary edition.
🔗 Get Yours Here

⭐ Five-Star Song Sticker Chart (PDF)
Motivate your child with this fun visual tracker.
🔗 Download the Chart

📅 PIANOVEMBER Practice Challenge
Join us this November for a FREE motivation boost. Students log their practice at PIANOVEMBER.com, track progress, and see how they stack up on the leaderboard.
🔗 Learn More & Sign Up

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