Getting your kid to the piano to practice and them knowing what to practice are two very different things. On today’s show, we’ll explore a few strategies to help your piano kid know what to do when they sit at the piano. Plus, PIANOVEMBER is just around the corner!
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Episode highlights
1. Building the Habit
Kids — especially beginners — may not naturally see the value of practicing daily.
Try “age × 3” minutes as a guideline (e.g. a 5‑year‑old aims for ~15 minutes total).
Practice sessions can be split across the day (morning, after school, etc.).
It’s the parent’s job (in partnership with the teacher) to help train the habit.
2. The Practice Sandwich
Start with something fun / familiar to warm up
Then tackle a tricky bit (a few measures, a weak spot)
Finish again with something encouraging or enjoyable
This sequence helps with motivation and momentum
3. Interleaved / Goal‑Oriented Practice
Instead of repeating one piece over and over, mix several pieces or sections
Move between pieces (or segments) rather than “drilling” one spot endlessly
Helps brain retention and prevents mental fatigue
Especially useful for intermediate students juggling multiple pieces
- Learn more about Interleaved Practice in episode 213
4. Expect Some Ugly Practice
Not every session will feel inspired
Some sessions are “just the work” — playing through, doing what you can
Compare it to daily habits like reading or eating — sometimes it’s simple and routine
Celebrate the small wins, and don’t let imperfect practice discourage you
5. Motivation Tools & “Eat the Frog”
Sometimes the hardest part is getting started
Use incentives: sticker charts, earned screen time, small rewards
Do the “hard part” first (the tricky section) while energy is fresh
Then let the rest of practice be more relaxed
6. PIANOVEMBER Practice Challenge
www.PIANOVEMBER.com
Runs November 1–30
Open to all — free, no cost, worldwide
Participants log practice tallies (every piece you play, every time you play it)
LIve Leaderboard!!
Special daily prompts (e.g. Nov 6 = Saxophone Day → some saxophone’s have 23 keys – collect 23 practice tallies)
Goal (collectively): 50,000 practice tallies
Useful Links / Resources:
Downloadable Practice Calendar / Tallies → www.PIANOVEMBER.com
Contact & feedback: shelly@pianoparentpodcast.com
Closing Thoughts:
The best practice isn’t always perfect, but it’s consistent.
Use small steps (like a one‑ or five‑minute rule) to get into the habit.
Use structure (sandwich, mixed practice) to make sessions more effective.
Don’t let technical frustrations or “ugly practice” days rob you of progress.
Join the PIANOVEMBER practice challenge with your student — being part of a community makes practice more fun.
Thank you for listening, piano parents. You are making a difference just by encouraging your student, by showing up, by helping them sit down at the piano. I see you. I’m grateful. I’ll talk to you again soon.
Listener Shoutout:
A big thank you to Karen — a fellow Texas teacher and listener — who reached out asking for clarity about the “five‑minute rule.” After digging back into past episodes, I confirmed that it’s not really a rule, but a helpful mental tool to get started. (Thanks, Karen!)
If you have a question, a suggestion, or want to be a guest on the show, email me at shelly@pianoparentpodcast.com or DM me on Instagram at @PianoParentPodcast.
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